Introduction
I’d like to share a personal experience that highlights the importance of a simple gesture, in which it’s asking for permission before assisting blind individuals out in the community like me.
My Experience
This experience happened to me while I was at my local Burger King restaurant a while back, and it left an impact on me that made me to spread awareness.
I remembered stepping into the restaurant to enjoy lunch. While I had a wonderful experience with getting lunch, this happened when I was leaving.
As I made my way through the restaurant, if I may be correct, an employee noticed me and, with the best of intentions, reached out and grabbed both of my arms. She wanted to guide me out of the restaurant, assuming I needed help. Startled by her sudden touch, all I could muster was a gentle response, “Thanks, but I’m good.”
I also remembered asking for her name, so I can remember her name just in case if she tries doing it again to me.
I want you to remember this story, as it highlights an important aspect of interacting with blind individuals like myself. Always ask before extending a helping hand if you see a person with a white cane out in the community.
Respecting our boundaries and seeking our consent can make a remarkable difference in our daily lives like myself.
Why Asking For Our Permission Matters
When you ask before assisting, you show respect for our personal space and autonomy. You acknowledge that we have the right to make decisions about the help we need, empowering us to maintain our independence.
Remember, not all blind individuals require assistance in the same way or to the same extent. By asking first, you allow us to communicate our preferences and ensure that any assistance from you that we receive meets our specific needs.
Understanding and acceptance
When a blind person declines your offer to assist them, please don’t take it personally. Our rejections are not a reflection of your kindness or your willingness to help. Each one of us has our own unique ways of navigating the world. By respecting our decisions, you contribute to our sense of self-reliance and dignity.
Building An Inclusive World Together
By embracing the practice of asking before helping a blind person, we can create a more inclusive and empathetic society. Our collective efforts to respect personal boundaries and honor individual choices foster an environment where blind individuals can thrive.
So, as you encounter a blind person with a white cane out in the community who may need assistance, remember to ask, “May I help you?”. If the answer is no, kindly accept it and know that your willingness to understand and respect our autonomy is truly appreciated.
Let’s shape a world where every person, regardless of their abilities, is valued and embraced with open hearts.